Wednesday, April 9, 2025

The Other Way Around

You can believe without seeing
You can believe with out even looking
You can feel a certain way

We think of jets as fire
They coolly create the modern world
Super massive black hole jets birth stars

They are fire in the dark
Consumed dead and gone illuminates our existence
We can look at things closer

Thomas and his doubting also blessed
Some words that are left out have more meaning than those present
Absence is measured by the heart

Like how the dog tells time with his nose
We can go the other way around

Saturday, March 29, 2025

Prodigal Love

We all have an inheritance. We all might not know or appreciate them. In our story today it is a great one given early. While unusual, it wasn’t unheard of for a father to distribute wealth before death, especially in cases where land was divided among heirs. The father allows his son to make his own decisions, even if they lead to failure. This mirrors how God grants us free will.

Ultimately, the early inheritance sets the stage for the son's journey—his failure, repentance, and redemption—emphasizing the depth of the father’s grace and the joy of restoration. The Parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32) is the third in a sequence of parables Jesus tells to emphasize God’s joy in restoring the lost. It follows the Parable of the Lost Sheep (Luke 15:3-7) and the Parable of the Lost Coin (Luke 15:8-10), both of which highlight the relentless pursuit of what has gone astray. With this context, the Prodigal Son parable deepens the message, shifting from objects and animals to a human relationship, showing not just recovery but full restoration. Together, these three parables paint a picture of God’s abundant grace and the rejoicing that comes with redemption.

So why does it not work? Turns out, if you hang out here long enough, it might just be the only place that works. We are comfortable seeing the corporation as a person devoid of soul it may be. The Corporation is designed to extract value in what they see as a world of scarcity. What kind of being are we that wants to pump life into our community. For one thing we recognize the abundance of God.

If we only measure life by what can be extracted, we will always see it as lacking—always in need of more, always just short of enough. But if we measure life by what can be given, by the hands that lift, the voices that comfort, the work that restores, then we begin to see the abundance that was there all along. Inheritance is not just what we receive but what we recognize and pass forward. A corporation may exist to claim value, but a community exists to create it. And in that creation, in that act of giving rather than taking, we find something far greater than profit—we find the life God intended, woven together, piece by piece, like a mosaic only visible when we stand together.

Luke 15 Amplified Bible
15 Now all the tax collectors and sinners [including non-observant Jews] were coming near Jesus to listen to Him. 2 Both the Pharisees and the scribes began muttering and complaining, saying, “This man accepts and welcomes sinners and eats with them.”

3 So He told them this parable

11 ..., “A certain man had two sons. 12 The younger of them [inappropriately] said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of the property that falls to me.’ So he divided the estate between them. 13 A few days later, the younger son gathered together everything [that he had] and traveled to a distant country, and there he wasted his fortune in reckless and immoral living. 14 Now when he had spent everything, a severe famine occurred in that country, and he began to do without and be in need. 15 So he went and forced himself on one of the citizens of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed pigs. 16 He would have gladly eaten the [carob] pods that the pigs were eating [but they could not satisfy his hunger], and no one was giving anything to him.

The father’s love in the parable is prodigal in its own way—lavish, overflowing, almost reckless. And maybe that’s the contrast: the son returns with nothing but exhaustion, while the father runs to meet him with abundance. The prodigal son's exhaustion is physical, emotional, and spiritual. After wasting his inheritance, he is drained from hunger and toil, reduced to feeding pigs in a foreign land. It had to be pigs by the way didn't it? To define what is foreign to the listener. The weight of regret and shame burdens him, knowing he has squandered everything, including his dignity. Yet, there is also an exhaustion in pride—he is too weary to resist returning home. His journey back is not just one of distance but of surrender, where the deepest fatigue meets the hope of rest in grace.

17 But when he [finally] came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired men have more than enough food, while I am dying here of hunger! 18 I will get up and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son; [just] treat me like one of your hired men.”’ 20 So he got up and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was moved with compassion for him, and ran and embraced him and kissed him.

The word prodigal means wasteful or recklessly extravagant, often referring to someone who spends resources lavishly or foolishly. In the Parable of the Prodigal Son, it describes the younger son who squanders his inheritance in reckless living. However, the story redefines prodigal beyond wastefulness, highlighting the extravagant grace and forgiveness of the parent who welcomes the child back with open arms.

21 And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight; I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ 22 But the father said to his servants, ‘Quickly bring out the best robe [for the guest of honor] and put it on him; and give him a [b]ring for his hand, and sandals for his feet. 23 And bring the fattened calf and slaughter it, and let us [invite everyone and] feast and celebrate; 24 for this son of mine was [as good as] dead and is alive again; he was lost and has been found.’ So they began to celebrate.

The older brother is exhausted by duty, resentment, and a sense of injustice. He has labored faithfully, yet he sees only what he lacks—recognition, reward, fairness. His exhaustion blinds him to the abundance already his: a home, security, a father’s love. Instead of rejoicing in what he has, he fixates on what he feels was undeservedly given to another. In clinging to scarcity, he cannot see that grace was never a transaction but a gift freely available to him all along.

25 “Now his older son was in the field; and when he returned and approached the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 So he summoned one of the servants and began asking what this [celebration] meant. 27 And he said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has received him back safe and sound.’ 28 But the elder brother became angry and deeply resentful and was not willing to go in; and his father came out and began pleading with him. 29 But he said to his father, ‘Look! These many years I have served you, and I have never neglected or disobeyed your command. Yet you have never given me [so much as] a young goat, so that I might celebrate with my friends; 30 but when this [other] son of yours arrived, who has devoured your estate with immoral women, you slaughtered that fattened calf for him!’ 31 The father said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. 32 But it was fitting to celebrate and rejoice, for this brother of yours was [as good as] dead and has begun to live. He was lost and has been found.’”

The story of the prodigal reflects a God who seeks and restores. Luke, often called the Gospel of the marginalized, highlights this parable within a trilogy of lost-and-found stories—the lost sheep, the lost coin, and the lost son—underscoring God's joy in welcoming back those who turn home. Luke's Gospel consistently emphasizes God's compassion for outcasts, making this parable a powerful illustration of divine mercy and radical grace.

God is like the extravagant father in the parable, overflowing with grace and generosity beyond what seems reasonable. The father does not just welcome the prodigal home—he runs to embrace them, clothes them in honor, and throws a feast in celebration. This love is not measured by merit or scarcity but by the joy of restoration. God’s abundance is not transactional; it does not hinge on how much we have done or how little we have strayed. It is simply given, freely and fully, to all who will receive it.

Yet we are often, like the older son, standing outside the celebration, resentful and blind to the abundance already ours. He has always been with the father, but he sees his life as duty rather than gift. He works without joy, believing love must be earned rather than shared. What he misses—what we so often miss—is that everything the father has is already his. The feast was never just for the lost but for all who live in the father’s house. When we refuse to join in, we are not deprived by God's withholding but by our own unwillingness to step into grace.

We talked about how we survive the present. The wayward, the lost, the squandered— we should talk about how we welcome them home. From different parts of the Bible, messages intersect again.

This is not just a story of repentance, but of reckless, extravagant, prodigal love. The son demands his inheritance, wastes it in reckless living, and finds himself in famine and despair. He returns, hoping to be a servant, but his father sees him from afar and runs to embrace him. No hesitation. No conditions. Just love.

The elder son is angry— he stayed, he worked, he obeyed. Why should wastefulness be rewarded? But the father replies: "This brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found." This is the mercy of God—not fairness, but restoration. This is difficult for people.

Joseph’s love was a love that endured. The father’s love is a love that pursues. Both defy expectation. Both reveal God’s nature. To forgive after suffering is radical. To run toward the unworthy is prodigal. We, too, are called to love this way. Love that is extravagant. Love that does not tally wrongs. Love that does not wait for perfection, but rejoices at return. Just as rejected ideas in art became new movements, just as the lost son was welcomed home, so, too, must our love transform, restore, and make the whole world.

The Roman Empire thrived at its height because it absorbed and integrated diverse cultures, religions, and peoples. Roman citizenship was extended beyond ethnic Romans, allowing for a broader talent pool in governance, military, and innovation. As Rome became more insular and resistant to outside influences, corruption and rigidity set in, weakening its adaptability.

The Ottomans ruled for centuries by allowing religious and ethnic groups to govern themselves under the millet system, fostering stability and longevity. When nationalism and exclusionary policies took hold, internal divisions weakened the empire, contributing to its collapse.

The European Renaissance flourished because of the exchange of ideas, many of which came through Islamic Spain and the Mongol-connected Silk Road. Greek and Roman texts preserved by diverse scholars sparked new innovations. History shows that diversity isn’t a weakness—it’s a survival strategy. Societies that integrate new perspectives adapt and endure. Those that rigidly resist change tend to stagnate or collapse.

One of the most radical interpretations of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32) challenges traditional views on repentance, justice, and grace.

Traditional readings suggest the younger son is repentant when he returns, but a radical view argues that his return is driven by hunger and desperation, not true remorse. His speech—“I will say to my father, ‘I have sinned…’”—can be read as a rehearsed manipulation, not genuine contrition. Despite this, the father interrupts him before he can even offer to be a servant, suggesting that repentance isn’t the reason for his acceptance—it’s purely the father’s unconditional love.

In the cultural context, giving a son his inheritance early was an outrageous, humiliating act for the father. The father runs to greet the son—a wildly undignified action for a patriarch in ancient Jewish culture. This interpretation sees the father as irrationally loving to the point of absurdity, mirroring a radical idea of God’s grace.

The older brother is often seen as prideful or self-righteous, but a radical reading sees him as totally justified—he did everything “right” and still gets nothing extra. This mirrors how institutions resist grace when it disrupts their sense of earned reward, much like the Pharisees resenting Jesus for welcoming sinners.

Some see the Prodigal as a Christ figure, not a sinner: He leaves the father’s house (heaven), enters a foreign land (the world), experiences suffering and rejection, and then is “resurrected” when he returns. The father’s embrace is like God’s validation of Jesus’ mission, just as the Resurrection is a divine vindication.

A politically radical view sees the story as a critique of economic injustice: The son wastes wealth, which was originally land and resources, making the family poorer. The father’s open generosity disrupts the normal economic expectations of fairness and reward. This could be seen as an argument against rigid meritocracy and for a radical, grace-filled redistribution of wealth.

At its most radical, the parable suggests that: God’s grace defies human logic, fairness, and even justice. Repentance may not be required for forgiveness. God is recklessly, even absurdly loving. The real villain (if any) is the one demanding fairness instead of grace.

These interpretations aren’t necessarily competing but rather layers of the same radical grace. Taken together, they reveal a God who: Gives freely, even when it seems unwise. Welcomes before repentance is proven. Disrupts our expectations of justice and fairness. Embodies both suffering and restoration. Challenges economic and social hierarchies.

This makes the parable not just a lesson about forgiveness but a revolutionary declaration of how God’s love operates beyond human reasoning.

Coins clink in his hand,
grace spent reckless, yet returns—
arms wide, love remains.

4 “What man among you, if he has a hundred sheep and loses one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the wilderness and go after the one which is lost, [searching] until he finds it? 8 “Or what woman, if she has ten silver coins [each one equal to a day’s wages] and loses one coin, does not light a lamp and sweep the house and search carefully until she finds it? 10 In the same way, I tell you, there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents [that is, changes his inner self—his old way of thinking, regrets past sins, lives his life in a way that proves repentance; and seeks God’s purpose for his life].”

Let Is Pray:
Prayer of Returning and Welcome

Loving God,
You see us when we wander,
when we lose our way,
when we chase after what does not last.
Yet, even in our distance, Your love does not falter.
You wait with open arms, ready to embrace,
not with judgment, but with joy.

When we hesitate, unsure of our welcome,
remind us that home is not a place we earn
but a grace we are given.
Let us be a people who rejoice in return,
who throw open the doors for those who seek refuge,
who celebrate restoration rather than resent it.

May our hearts mirror Yours—
quick to forgive, eager to restore,
overflowing with a love that calls all home.
Amen.

Benediction:

Go now with hearts open wide,
to receive and to welcome,
to forgive and to be restored.
May love lead you home,
and may grace make every return a celebration.
Amen.

Nottingham UMC 3/30/2025

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Certain things are not mysteries others nothing more
Finding out can make things disappear
Few things find completion

I always liked odd numbers
For me 8 was less the 7
There seemed to be some math to forget

Numbers you can always count on
Often what has long appeared insignificant
Things we throw away solve problems

There is too much garbage in the world
There is too little her
There is no equation here

We do not equal
A smile worth more
Never ready too many things disappear

Not what I had expected
In no way fair
I wouldn't know what to do

Can tell you what I would be
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Sunday, March 9, 2025

Nothing Separates Us From War

The fist war I traveled to I wanted to know when I had arrived
I had been there all along
Nothing separates us from War

You would not know how to live either
But then you would or die
Time emerges at different paces

With electricity and the clock keeping time so fast
No gas how would we cook our coffee
Rakija burns we have priorities still

Thursday, March 6, 2025

Prodigal Love

We talked about how we survive the present
Some things that start as wounds and become wonders

We are not all here, but love goes out and returns
The wayward, the lost, the squandered—
We are how we welcome them home

There are many answers no one wants to hear
More gather dust on shelves than we ever try

We are all here who remain
The resurrected have somewhere to return
What we celebrate is us

Saturday, February 22, 2025

Radical Love

We talked about how we survived the past.  Many things start out as jokes or insults.  We are not all here.  There are so many that should be here.  There are more gone than now here of my people.  We have thus in common: more than loss we are losing.  We should talk about how we will survive the future

From different parts of the Bible, messages intersect in profound ways. Let’s explore one connection and its radical implications.  We will look closer at Genesis 45:3-11, 15: Joseph’s Forgiveness and Reconciliation

In this passage, Joseph reveals his identity to his brothers, who had previously sold him into slavery out of jealousy.  Despite their betrayal, Joseph forgives them and reassures them that God’s providence was at work to save lives during the famine.  He urges them not to be distressed or angry with themselves, demonstrating extraordinary grace and reconciliation.

Joseph forgives his brothers despite their grievous wrongdoing.  He recognizes God’s hand in his suffering, using it for a greater purpose.  Joseph restores his relationship with his brothers, offering them care and provision.

4 And Joseph said to his brothers, “Please come closer to me.” And they approached him. And he said, “I am Joseph your brother, whom you sold into Egypt. 5 Now do not be distressed or angry with yourselves because you sold me here, for God sent me ahead of you to save life and preserve our family

Luke 6:27-38 is the other passage we will look at for connections.  Jesus calls his followers to love their enemies, do good to those who hate them, and bless those who curse them.  He challenges them to practice radical mercy, forgiveness, and generosity, reflecting the character of God.  Jesus emphasizes that this kind of love transcends human norms and reflects divine grace.

Don't be like people, huh

27 “But I say to you who hear [Me and pay attention to My words]: Love [that is, unselfishly seek the best or higher good for] your enemies, [make it a practice to] do good to those who hate you, 28 bless and show kindness to those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29 Whoever strikes you on the cheek, offer him the other one also [simply ignore insignificant insults or losses and do not bother to retaliate—maintain your dignity]. Whoever takes away your coat, do not withhold your shirt from him either. 30 Give to everyone who asks of you. Whoever takes away what is yours, do not demand it back. 31 Treat others the same way you want them to treat you

Love your enemies and do good without expecting anything in return.  Be merciful as God is merciful, and do not judge or condemn others.  Give freely, trusting that God will reward such selfless actions.  Joseph’s forgiveness of his brothers mirrors Jesus’ call to forgive and reconcile with those who wrong us.

35 ...because He Himself is kind and gracious and good to the ungrateful and the wicked. 36 Be merciful (responsive, compassionate, tender) just as your [heavenly] Father is merciful.

Losing family is the natural order, God sent me ahead of you to save life and preserve our family.  Making family is our future. Now is the time.  Pointillism, cubism abstract poor insults.  Our art is in making bands.  We bring those gone with us.

Pointillism, initially coined as a derogatory term by art critics in the late 19th century, was used to mock the technique of painting with small, distinct dots of color.  Critics dismissed it as overly mechanical and lacking the finesse of traditional brushwork. However, artists like Georges Seurat and Paul Signac embraced the term, refining the method to create vibrant, luminous compositions through the optical blending of colors.  Over time, Pointillism evolved from an insult into the official name for this innovative art movement, celebrated for its scientific approach to color theory and its unique visual impact; foreshadowing our modern electronics.  Our devices with their pixels are essentially pointillist works of art that we are still trying to understand

Cubism, initially ridiculed by critics in the early 20th century as a chaotic and nonsensical style, was seen as a radical departure from traditional art.  Pioneered by Pablo Picasso and Georges Braque, the movement fragmented objects into geometric shapes, challenging conventional perspectives.  Over time, what was once an insult became the defining name for this groundbreaking art form, celebrated for its revolutionary approach to representing reality and influencing modern art.

There is a pattern here.

Just as rejected ideas in art led to new styles like Pointillism and Cubism, forgiveness reshapes broken relationships into something new.  Artists take what others see as mistakes and make them into beauty.  In the same way, forgiveness takes pain, betrayal, and misunderstanding and transforms them into healing and growth.  Like stepping back from a Pointillist painting to see the full picture, forgiveness helps us see beyond the hurt to a greater whole.  It doesn’t erase the past but gives it new meaning, turning rejection into renewal.

We must challenge the natural human tendency toward retaliation or holding grudges.  The answer is Radical Love and Mercy.  Joseph’s actions toward his brothers—providing for them despite their betrayal—reflect the kind of radical love Jesus teaches.  The command to love enemies goes beyond Joseph’s example, extending love even to those outside one’s family or community.

7 God sent me [to Egypt] ahead of you to preserve for you a remnant on the earth, and to keep you alive by a great escape. 8 So now it was not you who sent me here, but God; and He has made me a father to Pharaoh and lord of all his household and ruler over all the land of Egypt

Joseph saved all of Egypt.  Joseph saw God’s hand in his suffering, using it for a greater good.  The teachings of Jesus suggest that acts of love and mercy align with God’s purposes, even when they are difficult or costly.

Both passages challenge the cycle of vengeance and retaliation, offering a vision of restoration and peace.  Both passages call for forgiveness to be a central practice in the lives of believers, even in the face of deep hurt or betrayal.  This challenges cultural norms that often prioritize justice as retribution rather than restoration.

The command to love enemies expands the scope of Joseph’s reconciliation with his brothers, urging believers to extend love even to those who are hostile or unrelated.  This has radical implications for how we treat outsiders, adversaries, and marginalized groups.  Joseph’s recognition of God’s providence in his suffering encourages believers to trust that God can bring good out of even the most painful circumstances.  This perspective can transform how we respond to suffering and injustice.  We know what to do.  Acts of love and mercy align with God’s purposes.

We must emphasize giving without expecting anything in return, whether it’s Joseph’s provision for his brothers or Jesus’ call to lend without expecting repayment.  This challenges materialism and self-centeredness, calling believers to live generously.  Joseph’s reconciliation with his brothers and Jesus’ call to love enemies both point to the dismantling of divisions of all kinds.

This has profound implications for addressing conflict, prejudice, and inequality in our world.

The connection between Genesis 45 and Luke 6 lies in their shared emphasis on forgiveness, reconciliation, and radical love.  The radical implications include living a life of forgiveness, loving beyond boundaries, trusting God’s providence, practicing generosity, and breaking down divisions.  Together, they offer a transformative vision for how we relate to others and reflect God’s character in the world.

The themes of forgiveness, reconciliation, radical love, and mercy found in Genesis  and Luke  have parallels in other religious traditions.  Many faiths include radical imperatives that challenge natural human tendencies toward revenge, selfishness, or exclusion.:

Islam: Mercy and Reconciliation.  Islam calls for responding to hostility with goodness, which aligns with Jesus’ command to love one’s enemies.  This principle, known as excellence in character, urges believers to go beyond justice and act with overwhelming kindness and mercy.  The Prophet forgave the people of Mecca after they persecuted him, following a principle similar to Joseph’s recognition that God's plan can bring good out of suffering.

Buddhism: Compassion and Non-Attachment to Retaliation  Instead of responding to harm with retaliation, Buddhism calls for metta (loving-kindness) and karuna (compassion), which break the cycle of suffering.  Unlike in Christianity, where forgiveness is often tied to divine grace, Buddhism sees forgiveness as freeing oneself from suffering caused by attachment to resentment.

Hinduism: Dharma (Righteous Duty) and Generosity
Bhagavad Gita 16:3: “Forgiveness, self-restraint, and non-violence are divine qualities.”  Hinduism emphasizes non-violence and selfless giving, which echo Jesus’ call to be merciful and generous without expecting anything in return.  

Judaism: Repairing the World.  The Jewish concept of Repairing the world pushes for active engagement in making peace, even when wronged.  Jewish scholars emphasize that Joseph's forgiveness was not just an act of kindness but a recognition of God’s hand in history, mirroring Luke’s call to love enemies as a reflection of divine mercy.

Sikhism: Seva (Selfless Service) and Forgiveness.  Guru Granth Sahib 1378: “Where there is forgiveness, there is God Himself.”  Sikhism teaches eternal optimism, meaning that even in suffering or persecution, Sikhs should respond with compassion, forgiveness, and selfless service rather than revenge.

Forgiveness is Strength, Not Weakness: Across these traditions, forgiveness is not passive but an act of spiritual power that breaks cycles of retaliation.  In many faiths, the command to love enemies or act with compassion is seen as a way to transform oneself and others.  Across traditions, radical generosity is considered a path to divine closeness, much like Jesus' call to give without expecting anything in return.

Genesis 45 and Luke 6 present a biblical expressions of forgiveness, reconciliation, and radical love, their core themes resonate across major world religions.  Many traditions contain imperatives that challenge self-interest, retaliation, and exclusion, instead promoting mercy, reconciliation, and selflessness as paths to spiritual transformation.

In Methodism, the themes of forgiveness, reconciliation, radical love, and generosity align closely with Wesleyan theology, particularly John Wesley’s emphasis on grace, Christian perfection, and social holiness.

Joseph’s forgiveness of his brothers and Jesus’ command to love enemies reflect the Methodist understanding of God’s prevenient grace—the grace that calls people to reconciliation before they even seek it.  Wesley believed that forgiveness was not just a personal virtue but a means of participating in God’s redemptive work.  Forgiveness is not optional; it is the way we reflect God’s love to the world.  John Wesley wrote, “One great reason why the rich, in general, have so little sympathy for the poor is because they so seldom visit them.”  This principle extends to forgiveness—if we do not engage in acts of mercy, we cannot understand the depth of God's mercy.

Jesus’ command to love enemies and give without expecting return resonates with Wesley’s view of Christian perfection—not as sinlessness, but as perfect love for God and neighbor, including enemies.  Wesley preached that salvation is a journey toward perfect love, where Christians move beyond loving only those who are easy to love.  Do good to all people, even those who do not deserve it.  John Wesley’s sermon On Charity states, “The love of God is the root of all holiness.  He who loves his neighbor for God's sake will soon be made perfect in love.”  This aligns with Jesus’ command to be merciful as God is merciful.

Joseph provides for his brothers in Genesis 45, and Jesus commands giving without expecting repayment in Luke 6.  Methodism strongly emphasizes acts of mercy and generosity as essential to faith.  Wesley advocated for radical generosity, urging Methodists to “Earn all you can, save all you can, give all you can.”  He taught that wealth and resources were not personal possessions but gifts entrusted by God for the common good.

Give sacrificially, without expecting repayment.  This reflects Jesus’ teaching: “Give, and it will be given to you”.  Wesley believed in redistributing wealth through acts of charity and social justice—an idea that continues in Methodist outreach ministries today.

Joseph refuses to retaliate against his brothers, choosing peace over vengeance.  Jesus commands his followers to “turn the other cheek” and “do good to those who hate you.”  Methodists see these passages as calls to break cycles of harm through grace and peacemaking.

Non-retaliation is a form of active resistance.  Wesley taught that turning the other cheek was not passive weakness but an active refusal to participate in the world's cycle of revenge and violence.  This idea influenced Methodist involvement in abolition, nonviolence, and social reform movements.

In Genesis 45, Joseph has matured spiritually to see God’s greater purpose in his suffering.  In Luke 6, Jesus calls for radical love that transcends normal human instincts.  In Methodism, this is part of the doctrine of sanctification—the lifelong process of becoming more Christlike.  Holiness is not just about avoiding sin—it’s about actively growing in love and grace.

Forgive radically—not just as a personal virtue but as a reflection of God’s mercy.  Love enemies—as part of striving for Christian perfection.  Be extravagantly generous—giving not just from surplus but as an act of faith.  Resist retaliation—choosing peace and reconciliation over cycles of harm.

Pursue holiness—not just by avoiding evil but by actively practicing love, mercy, and justice.  Methodists emphasize grace-based reconciliation in personal relationships, churches, and social movements.

Forgiveness is not passive—it requires action. Methodists seek to restore relationships, communities, and systems through acts of grace.  Jesus calls for love that extends beyond friends to enemies.  Methodists practice inclusive love through outreach, hospitality, and mission work.

Loving others—especially the marginalized—is an active command, not a suggestion.  We are called to welcome the stranger, house the homeless, and care for the rejected.  Joseph provides for his brothers despite their betrayal, and Jesus calls for selfless giving.  Methodists emphasize economic justice, generosity, and ethical stewardship.

Methodists support living wages, debt relief, and fair labor practices.  The Wesleyan ethic of wealth—"Earn all you can, save all you can, give all you can"—is applied to advocacy for workers' rights and economic policies that uplift the poor.  The Methodist Church has historically advocated for debt forgiveness in developing nations, believing that economic oppression is incompatible with Christian love.  Generosity is a spiritual discipline.  We are stewards of God’s resources, and wealth should serve the common good—not individual accumulation.

Methodists work with Muslims, Jews, Buddhists, and other Christian denominations to promote peaceful coexistence and interfaith dialogue.  Retaliation fuels destruction.  Nonviolence, reconciliation, and justice are how we transform the world.

Joseph’s journey reflects spiritual growth, and Jesus calls his followers to be merciful as God is merciful.  Methodists believe holiness is not just personal piety—it is lived out through love, mercy, and justice.

The Methodist "Three Simple Rules" (John Wesley)

Do no harm.
Do good.
Stay in love with God.

Wesley taught that personal holiness (prayer, scripture, devotion) must be matched by social holiness (justice, mercy, activism).  This is why Methodists are known for combining faith with social action.  Holiness is not separation from the world—it is engaging with the world to transform it in love.

Live differently, love radically, forgive freely, and give generously.

Radical love is not passive—it transforms.  Like Joseph’s forgiveness and Jesus’ command to love beyond boundaries, it reshapes our world, turning loss into renewal and division into unity.  This love is our calling, our challenge, and our hope. Now is the time.

38" Give, and it will be given to you. They will pour into your lap a good measure—pressed down, shaken together, and running over [with no space left for more]. For with the standard of measurement you use [when you do good to others], it will be measured to you in return.”

In the end, survival is not just about enduring loss—it’s about making something new from it.  Just as Joseph turned betrayal into reconciliation and Jesus called us to love beyond reason, we are invited to transform suffering into grace.  Like the artists who turned insults into innovation, we forge beauty from brokenness.  Now is the time to build—through mercy, generosity, and radical love—a future where no one is forgotten, and everyone belongs.

Often we underestimate the power of mercy.  It’s easy to believe that forgiveness makes us weak, but in truth, it requires incredible strength.  The challenge is not just to let go of past wrongs but to build something new from those fractures—a kind of beauty only possible through grace.  This is the radical love we’re called to embody: not just surviving the losses we’ve faced but daring to create family, healing, and hope in their wake.

Loss cuts deep, yet still—
Forgiveness builds, love reshapes,
Stronger futures bloom

What would it mean to love so radically it reshapes the future?

Sun climbs, steady bright—
shadows shorten, paths unfold.
The “dots” of forgiveness
create a masterpiece of reconciliation.

Let Us Pray,
Loving Creator,
You call us beyond what is easy, beyond what is fair,
into a love that defies expectation.
Teach us to forgive as we have been forgiven,
to give without counting the cost,
to see Your image even in those who wound us.
Strengthen us in mercy, embolden us in grace,
that we may reflect Your boundless love in all we do.
Amen.

Benediction

Go now in the power of radical love—
a love that forgives, a love that gives,
a love that heals what the world divides.
May grace go before you,
mercy walk beside you,
and peace be your path.
Amen.

Nottingham UMC 11/23/20024


Friday, February 14, 2025

We're Still Here

We talked about how we survived the past
Many things start out as jokes or insults
We are not all here
There are so many that should be here

There are more gone than now here of my people
We have thus in common
More than loss we are losing
We should talk about how we will survive the future

Losing family is the natural order
Making family is our future
Now is the time
Pointillism, cubism abstract poor insults

Our art is in making bands
We bring those gone with us